Tag: neurodivergence
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Neurodivergent Burnout: How Misdiagnosis and Dismissal Left Me Broken for Decades
For most of my adult life, I believed there was something wrong with me. I chased answers for my constant exhaustion, pain, and inability to function like everyone else. Doctor after doctor dismissed me as “hysterical,” “lazy,” or “just stressed.” What I didn’t know was that the problem wasn’t my body failing me—it was neurodivergent…
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Inside the Meltdown: What It Really Feels Like (From an Autistic Adult)
Ever wondered what a meltdown actually feels like from the inside? In this honest post, I share what happens in my brain and body during a full-blown autistic meltdown — from the slow build-up to the explosive release. If your child melts down and can’t explain why, this post may help you see what’s really…
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When Words Don’t Register: Navigating Communication Challenges as an Autistic Adult
It happened again. I thought I was being helpful—no, super helpful. My friend was facing a tricky, time-sensitive task, and I sprang into action. I made adjustments, grabbed my laptop, and got to work, doing what I do best: efficient research and problem-solving. As I worked, I checked in regularly, asking for their input at…
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When You Learn Your Needs Don’t Matter: The Emotional Toll of Being Undiagnosed
I’ve often been asked why I push so hard for my kids to get diagnosed. To some, they seem “normal,” and the effort to secure assessments feels unnecessary. “They’ll be fine,” I’ve heard countless times. The answer to this question is simple: me. I’m the reason. My lived experience as an undiagnosed autistic and ADHD…
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