Tag: autistic
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Feeling Like An Imposter – The ASD Assessment For A Child That “Copes”
Well, it’s official. Today, E (4) received his autism diagnosis — and with it came a flood of complicated, unexpected emotions. I already knew, deep down, that he was autistic. But I doubted myself anyway now the assessment appointment was looming. His brother, H (6), is very much like me. Our autistic traits are loud,…
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What My 6-Year-Old Taught Me About Emotional Regulation
The four of us sat down for a quiet New Year’s Eve meal together. This year we chose raclette — one of those meals that involves cooking at the table. The grill was hot, the table was crowded with ingredients, and the fun of sizzling bacon and melting the perfect slice of cheese began. The…
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I’m Not Being Difficult — I’m Autistic: Learning to Honour My Needs Without Guilt
Struggling to set boundaries as an autistic adult? Learn how recognising your sensory and emotional needs isn’t selfish — and why self-advocacy leads to healthier relationships.
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Birthday Party Panic: Why Social Events Can Overwhelm Autistic Kids
A conversation over the weekend made me realise just how much misunderstanding still surrounds autistic kids and social events. As an autistic adult raising two neurodivergent boys, I often forget that what feels completely natural to us can be baffling to others. So, let me paint a picture. My 6-year-old, H, was thrilled to be…
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Autistic Overwhelm and the Masking Dilemma: To Fake It or Take a Break?
The playdate was a rare occasion—my kids actually asked to meet up with friends. Naturally, I was shocked but determined to make it work. So, there I was, chatting with another mum. She was lovely—warm, easy to talk to, and genuinely kind. And yet, I felt anything but comfortable. In the lead-up to this meeting,…
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Think You Don’t Have Autistic Meltdowns? Here’s Why You Might Be Wrong
You don’t have to scream, cry, or collapse to be having an autistic meltdown. For years, I thought meltdowns were something that happened to other people—until I realised my daily irritability, supermarket rage, and sudden shutdowns were my reaction to overwhelm. Here’s what it really looks like, and how I finally connected the dots.
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When Transitions Get in the Way of Life: The Autistic Petrol Station Drama
If you’re anything like me, you’ll know this scene all too well. You’re driving home, and the fuel light has been flashing for the past two days. You’ve passed several petrol stations, mentally prepping yourself each time to pull in and fill up. But as the station looms closer, you just… drive past. Again. By…
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