Tag: autism
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When Transitions Get in the Way of Life: The Autistic Petrol Station Drama
If you’re anything like me, you’ll know this scene all too well. You’re driving home, and the fuel light has been flashing for the past two days. You’ve passed several petrol stations, mentally prepping yourself each time to pull in and fill up. But as the station looms closer, you just… drive past. Again. By…
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Helping Neurodivergent Kids Get Ready for School—My Personal Approach
If you have neurodivergent kids, you’ll likely know the joy of navigating the seemingly insurmountable task of getting them ready for the day. Simple things like getting dressed, brushing teeth, and putting on shoes can feel like scaling Everest while juggling flaming torches. In our house, mornings used to be a battleground. Large Child (5…
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Understanding Autistic Overwhelm: A Personal Journey
For the last few years, I’ve been on a mission to figure out how my brain works. I like answers—clear, concrete, and definitive answers to any challenge I face. Unfortunately, this journey doesn’t come with many of those. Since my teenage years, I’ve been a tightly wound ball of anxiety and stress. It’s as though…
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Autistic Masking: What to Do When School Can’t See Your Kid Isn’t Coping
During Large Child’s first term at school, I started hearing reports that he was “coping much better.” The tears had lessened, he was staying calm, and while he was still virtually mute, the feedback was sparkling. The reality at home told a very different story. Every day after school was a battle. The moment we…
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Starting School with Autism: Our Struggle and What Helped My Child Cope
When my autistic son started school, we expected excitement—but instead, we faced daily meltdowns, fear, and exhaustion. Here’s how we navigated the chaos, fought for the right support, and began turning survival into progress.
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Trusting My Gut: How I Knew My Quiet Child Was Autistic Before Anyone Else Did
Suspect your child might be autistic but getting no feedback from professionals? Here’s how I trusted my gut, found an ally in my child’s reception teacher, and pushed for early support.
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Autism in Quiet Children: Why Being “No Trouble” Shouldn’t Mean No Support
When my son started preschool, his quiet, well-behaved nature was often mistaken for shyness. But behind the calm exterior were early signs of autism—sensory overwhelm, routine anxiety, and silent refusals to join in. Because he wasn’t disruptive, his struggles flew under the radar. In this post, I explore how autism can present in quiet children,…
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Seeing Myself in My Son: Recognising Autism as a Neurodivergent Parent
When I realised my son was showing signs of autism, I was already halfway through my own diagnostic journey. What followed was an emotional rollercoaster of recognition, pride, and a deep connection I never expected.
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How Do I Human? Discovering I’m Neurodivergent After a Lifetime of Misunderstanding
For years, I thought I was just broken—too intense, too sensitive, too much. It wasn’t until I discovered I’m both autistic and ADHD that everything finally made sense. This is the story of how a lifetime of misdiagnosis, burnout, and self-doubt led to a life-changing moment of clarity—and the start of finally understanding how to…
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