Tag: autisic child
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Feeling Like An Imposter – The ASD Assessment For A Child That “Copes”
Well, it’s official. Today, E (4) received his autism diagnosis — and with it came a flood of complicated, unexpected emotions. I already knew, deep down, that he was autistic. But I doubted myself anyway now the assessment appointment was looming. His brother, H (6), is very much like me. Our autistic traits are loud,…
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What My 6-Year-Old Taught Me About Emotional Regulation
The four of us sat down for a quiet New Year’s Eve meal together. This year we chose raclette — one of those meals that involves cooking at the table. The grill was hot, the table was crowded with ingredients, and the fun of sizzling bacon and melting the perfect slice of cheese began. The…
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When Reading Doesn’t Equal Writing: Supporting a Hyperlexic Autistic Child
I genuinely thought I must have been getting something wrong. My autistic 6-year-old can read at a level far beyond his age, yet he struggles massively with putting pencil to paper in the classroom. None of it made sense—until I learned more about hyperlexia. H is reluctant to read with me, or with anyone. But…
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Practise Makes Positivity: Starting School With An Autistic Child
Here I write about my youngest child’s transition to school after a challenging preschool experience. His autism required careful preparation, focusing on social skills, communication, and comfort in the school environment. With tailored support, he overcame initial struggles and confidently began school. The journey emphasizes the importance of preparation and understanding autistic needs.
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Social Success: How Stepping Back Helped My Autistic Child Leap Forward
After years of tears and overwhelm, my autistic son H asked to go on a playdate—and thrived. No meltdowns, no drama, just joy. Here’s how stepping back from social pressure created the space he needed to move forward in his own time.
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How Parenting My Neurodivergent Kids Helped Me Heal My Own Childhood Wounds
Parenting can be powerful and healing—especially for neurodivergent parents raising neurodivergent children. Here’s how one camping trip reminded me of how far we’ve come.
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How to Talk to Teachers About Your Neurodivergent Child (Without Getting Dismissed)
Is your child calm at school but melting down at home? You’re not alone. Many neurodivergent children “mask” during the day, only to unravel when they’re finally safe. This post explores why that happens and offers practical advice for talking to teachers when you feel dismissed or unheard. Learn how to advocate for your child…
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Buddy the School Transition Bear: Helping Autistic Children Cope with Big Changes
When my husband returned from a work trip with a couple of free teddy bears, I smiled politely. Cute, yes. But nothing groundbreaking—until I noticed something that made me stop in my tracks. The bears were wearing little yellow T-shirts… the exact same colour as the school uniform my four-year-old, E, will be wearing in…
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The Transition Glitch: When Autism Doesn’t Agree with Your Plans
We’d been looking forward to this change for weeks. The grown-up bedroom was moving downstairs, and the boys were upgrading to the bigger bedroom upstairs — more room for play, less noise for us, and shiny new “big boy” beds ready to be built and jumped on. It was a proper family project. Furniture was…
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Birthday Party Panic: Why Social Events Can Overwhelm Autistic Kids
A conversation over the weekend made me realise just how much misunderstanding still surrounds autistic kids and social events. As an autistic adult raising two neurodivergent boys, I often forget that what feels completely natural to us can be baffling to others. So, let me paint a picture. My 6-year-old, H, was thrilled to be…
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